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SUMMER ROMANCE
We all have had a summer romance or maybe just a fling. What I don’t understand is why it don't last? And why aren't people taking the summer romance seriously? “It was just a summer romance” Come on, what if it was real love? If you find love at summer time and if it doesn’t work out, it seems like we blame the summer. Why couldn’t it last after the summer? Especially us girls believe that perfect moments doesn't last, so we just... Kind of give up that possibility of real happines? The whole summer is perfect. Sun, pretty dresses, hot guys, parties, barbecues and late nights. It reminds me a little bit as a fairy tale. And fairy tales does not exist in real life, right? But what if we think too much and just throw real love out of the window?
Why I think it doesn't last is that, after the summer all of our habits starts to be a routine, a pattern. The school starts, you try to concentrate on your grades, you are too tired to go out and have fun, and the fall is right around the corner. All these stuff is not a part of the summer. I think we should concentrate on how he made us feel rather than the realistic picture. We all need to forget to be realistic sometimes and just go for our feelings. They are there for a reason, a good reason. Yes we may got inspired and the summer may had help a bit, but that’s not a reason for giving up on a guy who made us feel like we are the only one he needs. -A
Advice from Ashley Kay- What guys want.
Perhaps this is common sense, but if the guy is giving you a lot of attention but you're not giving back to him anything, then eventually he's going to think you're not interested or don't appreciate the things he does, and pull back himself.Before asking yourself what you're doing WRONG, ask yourself what have you done RIGHT? Have you shown him how much you appreciate him, have you clearly expressed your interest towards him and ENCOURAGED him to continue to pursue you?
Pushing the guy into action?
Sometimes us women want to make sure that guys know what we want of them. Sometimes this can be seen as being "pushy". If you've being hinting, nagging or complaining about something they're NOT doing, this is a sure way to make certain they're going to pull away. Guys don't want to be pushed into doing things for someone they'r interested in. They must come to their own conclusions about doing something, and take action because they really want to. If you push, even if he was going to do it anyway, it's going to turn him off taking action. So, if you feel you've been nagging him about something or even "hinting" you wanted more from him, it will have inadvertently made him hesitant to do those things.
Giving him too much attention too fast.
It's common when you first get into a relationship and really like a guy, you just want to be around him all the time, tell him how much you like him and do all sorts of romantic things for him. Although this is how women express their love for someone, guys will feel smothered and wonder if this behaviour will eventually lead to "jealousy issues" or you preventing him from "doing his own thing". If you feel you have been smothering the guy too much.. calling too often or showing more interest than he is, then you need to pull back and "allow" him to chase you. Remember, guys do like the chase, but he can't do that if you're constantly making the move for him.
Giving him too much power.
When you give a guy power, he can then choose to call you or show you interest only when HE feels like it. Men are smart, if he has a good casual thing going with you, but don't want a full on relationship, he'll be hot and cold with you to ensure that you still stick around when you need him. If you always make yourself available to him and give the impression you don't have anything else going on in your life except waiting for him to call or ask you out, this is giving the man all the power to do what he pleases.
He calls when he wants, he ignores you when he wants and he basically has a sweet deal. Do NOT be subjected to this kind of treatment from a guy. If the guy just isn't that into you, then he isn't into you and you should just move on! There's plenty of men out there!
IMPOSSIBLE
Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing-Muhammad Ali
Advice from Ashley Kay-What do guys want.
The truth is men want pretty much the SAME things that women want
in a partner.
1). CONFIDENCE - confidence means knowing who you are and not
being afraid to just BE yourself around someone else.
2). SELF-RESPECT - someone who stands up for herself, has
boundaries and commands respect from others. A person with
self-respect also has ample respect for others.
3). PASSION For LIVING - have your own goals and ambitions, as
well as your own hobbies and interests.
Sometimes we get caught up in believing that in order to attract a
great guy, we need to do certain things and act a certain way.
The truth is as long as you live the life YOU want to live and have
respect for yourself and others, that great guy for you will be
just around the corner.
You don't need to CHANGE anything about yourself. Perhaps the only
thing you need to do is recognise and embrace all the great things
about you - and not be afraid to let others see it.
American History X
| - | Danny vinyard |
"You are a victim of your own mind."
I’m tired to defend my own people; I’m tired of these people that make a small thing to everything. I wanna destroy what destroys not only me but what destroys everybody, I wanna change everybody’s point of view but I guess it’s not all on me. They think they know every little thing but honestly they don’t know shit, they keep sayin’ what they believe, but brotha cut the bullshitin’ and look at the facts before you open your dirty mouth. The only thing they do is spreading words they hear on the street, and the crazy part is that they actually believe on their own shit. Ha-ha you motherfuckers ain’t anything. Ya’ ain't a hero or something, ya are only embarrassing yourselves trying to take over the world, like you are special or some stupid ass motherfuckn’ shit. People welcome to society, where you will be judged for the way you look, for the way you dress, for your sexuality, welcome to society where only the strong ones survive.-A
Poetry: Under The Stars.
Just give me a magical night,give me love. In this point i don't care if it's real or not, just one night of fireworks. A night that is perfect, A night under the stars, a night just the two of us, a night that could never be as amazing as this night tonight. A night that only last once, i wont be angry if you never call. I promise. Just give me a feeling that will keep me alive whenever i want to die. Give me everything just this one night, am I asking for too much?-A
